Training the Elephant (“Just Violated?”)

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Training The Elephant (“Just Violated?”)

“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.”

Proverbs 22:6

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How is a baby elephant trained for the circus?

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Much like how intergenerational patterns of abuse/violation happen.

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Perpetrator. Victim/Survivor.

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What was it that I was born into? What was it that I endured?

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What WAS I “a product of?”

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Rape? Abuse? Violence?

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(“Just”) Violation?

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Amazon.com: (“Just”) Violated?

(“Just Violated?” Book Excerpt…)

“Training the Elephant.”

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Supposedly, when elephants were used for such enterprises as circuses, they needed to train them. They would start with a baby elephant. They would tie its foot to a secure structure like a post. Anything that was strong enough so that the animal could not break free and escape.

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Initially, the baby elephant would try, with everything in its being, to get freed from the post. It would never succeed, however.

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Eventually, it stopped trying to break free.

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By now, the animal is probably an adult. But “well-trained.”

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It is at that point the trainer or the handler unties the elephant from the confining structure.

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This would be the creature’s opportunity to get free.

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But it doesn’t move.

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It stays “tied.”

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It no longer believes it can go anywhere. It believes that it can no longer be free.

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The animal is broken and well-trained for purposes other than its own well-being

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