…Body Changes and Antlers:
Another no-brainer, but yes, we need to prepare for a different life and body after diagnosis. Certainly, after such treatments as breast surgery (or surgeries) and radiation.
I had mistakenly believed once I had my bilateral mastectomy, the only major physical change would be that I’d have no breasts. It’s a little more complicated than that.
We also need to prepare for a difference in feeling: the lack of breast weight, the way the skin feels. That can be a numb sensation, a tighter chest feeling, or some irradiated swelling.
And if reconstruction enters the picture, well, there’s a whole array of differences, feelings, complications, and “new body adjustments” to take in.
Please just know you will notice your body feels different, beyond lump or breast removal. You and I are going to have to learn how to inhabit this skin now.
One cannot be too fussy in this area, in my opinion. Ask repeatedly any questions you have. Bother your treatment team; bug your doctors. Mention concerns. Do what you can to rule out fears of dreaded outcomes.
Yes, it’s a pain to be so hyperaware. Most of the time, a sensation is harmless, just part of your new normal. Still, when in doubt, ask.
And keep an eye out for the antlers.
So far, I’m in the clear.
